Why do some people derive pleasure from the misfortunes of those who are exceedingly blessed than they are?

"Learn from your mistakes." Actually it's not only learn from your own mistakes, but also from others' mistakes. For me, there would possibly be negative and positive reasons why some people derive pleasures from others' misfortune. Everyone was given unique blessings from Him, and we must be contented from those.

One negative reason is from too much envy. So if the much blessed person would commit a mistake, other people would probably think that, that man doesn't deserve to be much blessed. They are envy of too much blessing of other people. They also want to have those too much blessing so if a much blessed person would have a misfortune then other people would think that they are of the same status. They would also think that they could be a much blessed person too, which is not that impossible. Another reason is being selfish of good lucks. Some people only want those good lucks to be for them and not for the much blessed. They believe that they will have the chance for the blessing that must be for the much blessed one. Learning from mistakes is a positive reason. People would not do things that made a much blessed man be misfortuned.

We should be contented on the things He gave us. He has good plans for us, He has reasons on giving much blessing to other people. Just wait for your turn to be a much blessed person. Everything has its right time.

How can you say the feeling a person has for another is true love?

In love?, True love?

What does it really mean? Is it really coming to people? When would you know if it's true love? Are there signs if it's true love already?

Let's face the reality that everyone would be in loved and others were already truly madly in love. Maybe for me, I could say that the love I'm feeling is true if I would have no hesitations to decide for it as long as it would be good for me. Love would be true if you are ready to face the consequences that would be brought to you when you'll be in love. Maybe, I wouldn't like to be away from someone whom I loved but for our sake, I would do it. A love would only be true if there will have no bad feelings, no bad effects and would probably bring you to top. True love begins when nothing is looked for in return. True love respects everything.

True love would be your little source of inspiration and encouragement. Though there with be too much sacrifices as long as it would do good for you. You'll not be afraid to do anything if it's true love. You'll be believing in true love in the right time. True love will help you learn many things in life, sadness, happiness, loneliness and sacrifices. Love may be tricky but when you feel it, one great smile from your lips.

True love never lies...

Why sometimes our blessings seem to be a disaster for us?

"Our prayers should be for blessings in general, for God knows best what is good for us. - Socrates"
We often give thanks to the blessings we're receiving from Him, and we always include it in our prayers. It's a good habit to give thanks for those blessings, but is there a limit to our blessings? When would it be called a disaster for us? Is it really a disaster since those blessings are from Him?

In dictionary, blessing is defined as " the infusion of something with holiness, divine will, or one's hopes. " It means hope so probably it must be a positive one and not negative or disaster. Honestly, just through observation these blessings are being abused by man. People got so blind because of those blessings, they don't know how to use, manage, and control those blessings. Sometimes these blessings made them so selfish particular to money."share you're blessings..." A short phrase but it really means so much.

I could only say that a blessing is a disaster of it's not for a good goal. Be careful in using those blessing, because He might get it back and leave you nothing. Financial, talent, and other personal blessings must be shared for it was given by Him. Know the real meaning of "blessing". Everyone has a unique blessing from Him but never use it to reach your negative or selfish goal. Keep those blessings as you dream and reached that perfect day with the people who surrounds you. Aim high with your blessings!

"The great blessings of mankind are within us and within our reach; but we shut our eyes, and, like people in the dark, we fall foul upon the very thing we search for, without finding it. - Seneca"